Why does it hurt so much when a girl rejects me?
Listen to Hans Zimmer- time https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c56t7upa8Bk Here’s a talk I wish I had with my father. It didn’t happen because I never asked, but maybe one day I’ll have it with my son. Or I’ll just give him this link when the time comes. – Why does it hurt so much when a girl rejects me? – Because you think her “no” defines your worth. But it only reflects her choice at that moment, not your value. – How come? I want her to like me! – Look at this toolbox. Do you see that pair of pliers? – Yes, sure. They’re brand new. – Do you think they’d do a good job pulling out a nail? – Of course, they’d be perfect for that! – But what if you need to drive a nail with a hammer? Would the pliers be any less valuable? – No, of course not! – Exactly. It’s the same with you. – But I feel embarrassed and small, inadequate. – That’s just your ego bruised, not your spirit. Girls don’t reject you to harm you. They’re simply being true to their feelings. Respect that. Stop b...
