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I miss you dad!

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  If the link above should quit working, listen to Tears in heaven by Eric Clapton      On Sunday, the handle on my kitchen door broke. Being a shitty Chinese door with non-standard size, I had to order it and it arrived Tuesday. Spent 3 hours on Tuesday and 1,5 hours on Wednesday to fit the damn thing, buy a chisel, hack out a bigger hole for it and clear the way for it to close, but I got it done. If my father could have been here, he would've probably done it in less than an hour. Unfortunately, he passed a way ten and a half years from pancreatic cancer.     My father worked with wood all his life. He was a pattern maker by trade, working with wood , epoxy and polyesteric resins, fibreglass and all manner of solvent based paints and glues. He also made probably hundreds of doors, windows, staircases, and pieces of furniture and fitted hundreds of locks to doors and windows (I watched him myself fit about a dozen over the years). Not only that, but ...

I miss you dad!

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  If the link above should quit working, listen to Tears in heaven by Eric Clapton      On Sunday, the handle on my kitchen door broke. Being a shitty Chinese door with non-standard size, I had to order it and it arrived Tuesday. Spent 3 hours on Tuesday and 1,5 hours on Wednesday to fit the damn thing, buy a chisel, hack out a bigger hole for it and clear the way for it to close, but I got it done. If my father could have been here, he would've probably done it in less than an hour. Unfortunately, he passed a way ten and a half years from pancreatic cancer.     My father worked with wood all his life. He was a pattern maker by trade, working with wood , epoxy and polyesteric resins, fibreglass and all manner of solvent based paints and glues. He also made probably hundreds of doors, windows, staircases, furniture, fitted hundreds of locks to doors and windows (I watched him myself fit about a dozen over the years). Not only that, but he had all the to...

Why being lonely sucks and how to solve it

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      If link doesn't work, listen to the Backstreet Boys -Show me the meaning of being lonely Another Reddit inspired post, this one is about people asking : I am feeling lonely, what should I do?  Most answers on there fall into one of 2 categories: 1) The new age hippies with you must learn to love yourself, your happiness doesn't depend on others etc 2) Normal people that suggest dating (live or online ), self-improvement in order to be more attractive etc. If you've read a few of my posts on here,  you'll already know where I stand. But just to give some insight why I think most humans are social beings by design and not meant to live alone, here are a few facts: 1)Oldest healed bone fractures found on a  human skeleton date back 130 000 years. This means somebody took care of that poor bastard while his bones healed, otherwise, not being able to get food , water, shelter he would have died before they healed 2) For thousands of years, solitude was a f...

Why being lonely sucks and how to solve it

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      If link doesn't work, listen to the Backstreet Boys -Show me the meaning of being lonely Another Reddit inspired post, this one is about people asking : I am feeling lonely, what should I do?  Most answers on there fall into one of 2 categories: 1) The new age hippies with you must learn to love yourself, your happiness doesn't depend on others etc 2) Normal people that suggest dating (live or online ), self-improvement in order to be more attractive etc. If you've read a few of my posts on here,  you'll already know where I stand. But just to give some insight why I think most humans are social beings by design and not meant to live alone, here are a few facts: 1)Oldest healed bone fractures found on a  human skeleton date back 130 000 years. This means somebody took care of that poor bastard while his bones healed, otherwise, not being able to get food , water, shelter he would have died before they healed 2) For thousands of years, solitude was a f...