Feeling smug!
If the link fails, listen to Chesney hawkes I am the one and only They say great minds think alike. I'm probably not a great mind, but while reading Milan Kundera's Impossible lighness of being I came upon this quote "“Making love with a woman and sleeping with a woman are two separate passions, not merely different but opposite. Love does not make itself felt in the desire for copulation (a desire that extends to an infinite number of women) but in the desire for shared sleep (a desire limited to one woman).” This was probably written before I was born, but I do believe it's more or less on the same page as I was rambling about in my previous post What's the deal with loosing your virginity